The first mistake that most people make
is that they go under the wrong impression that a meeting, even the first
meeting must end up in bed. No, it does not have to be so.
There is no compulsion on your part or
anyone’s part that you have to take the person home with you. Just because you
enjoy talking or chatting with a person it does not necessarily mean that you
have to sleep with the person. Let that too evolve, so it is best to keep any
such situations that might lead to a bed room scene completely at bay.
So how do you do that? The first thing
you should do is that you should be clear about the time. Evenings are tricky
times to meet. If you have dinner together, then there comes the possibility of
dropping the other person home.
And of course you can’t just accept a
ride and walk away after being dropped without inviting the other person in.
And then one thing will lead to the other and then the inevitable is bound to
happen. Of course, if that’s the way you would like it to be then you just have
to do what I just told you not to do.
Lunch time is the best time because in
the day time most of us are busy with work and we can just spare an hour or a
half for lunch. So you can always leave on the pretext that you have to get
back to work or something like that. Very few people end up going home together
after lunch. Another thing is that at lunch the element of romance does not
really come in.