someone with whom he or she can raise a family of
his or her own.
Now this is a fundamental need of man: to find
a life mate. And the most popular method used for this is dating. When we talk
about dating in the very finest sense of the word, please understand that
dating is not to be viewed as a precursor for sleeping together. It is much
more than that. It is the first step towards choosing a life partner and online
dating has made the whole process a lot simpler now.
Marriage
Versus A Casual Relationship
Now
what you do and what you want is entirely your business. I don’t want to sound
nosey but I would like to draw a fine line between the kind of dating that is
involved in these two quests.
Of
course we are all grown up and so let us act like grown ups. Obviously in a
casual relationship we are looking for fun. And mind you, fun can have a lot of
connotations. So here the object of one’s desire will obviously be a person who
is not inclined towards a serious relationship.
If
both parties are of the same view then it is well and good because they
understand each other perfectly and do not expect much from such a
relationship. This leaves no room for heartbreak.
It
is when one party is in for something more serious and the other party is into
sheer frivolousness that the problems start. So you should be absolutely clear