about what you are looking for from the start, and
you should make your intentions very clear to the other person.
At
the same time you should have no doubts about the intentions of the other
person as well. Remember, even if it is a casual relationship, there should be
mutual understanding at least about the nature of the relationship.
Of
course, there is yet another possibility where a casual relationship can
blossom into something more serious. But,
again in such cases it is your instincts that can help you identify what is
good and what is bad.
No
matter how strong a person is, anyone can be taken for a ride or be taken for
granted. Being jilted is never a nice
experience. So those of you who are going in for a casual relationship, for
heavens sake, be on your guard! Marriage is altogether a different story but we
will deal with that later.
Dating
Comes From a Fundamental Need
Let’s
face it, of course sex is important, but sex is by far not the most important
reason for dating.
Maybe
during the age of thoughtless youth, when new hormones are being pumped in and
out, sex is on every one’s mind. But as
one matures (mind you that does not mean growing old and gray) sex takes the
back seat and mutual support, likes and dislikes, cooperation, caring and
sharing come to the forefront. We start